A brief history of glassmind's life
Short background and history of my journey up to today
My parents divorced when I was 4. I loved my father and it
broke my heart to loose him at that age. During my childhood I
constantly lacked a father figure, and the new boyfriend of my mother
was a bad substitute. Loosing my father was the reason I was shy and
weak. I was bullied when I got 12. My new classmates hated me because I
read a lot, and I was a bit shy. I endured it two years, untill it
resolved into a major breakdown. During these years I wished to
dissapear. All I wanted was to vanish. My mother just gave birth to her
second child in four years and my parents mostly cared for them. My
younger sisters made a lot of work, and I didn't wanted to burden my
parents with my problems. I called my mother when I lost it, and she
took me off the school after I told her, I couldn't endure it anymore.
At my new school were only girls and I finally found friends. Those
girls showed me Manga, Star Wars and Music. I listened to metal, punk
rock and changed my style. I really looked weird in that punk rock metal
style :D My sisters got older and my mother finally noticed that my
psychological state even worsened since I changed schools. By that time,
I thought about killing myself. I wrote dark poems, told my girlfriend
about my self loathing hate and cried a lot. It got very hard, after she
broke up with me. After all, I was only 16 years old. My next boyfriend
helped me out of my suicidal phase but it ended, and I started cutting.
I started watching anime, and locked me up in my room. I just hated
myself. I cut myself because of all that hate for myself and my life. My
mental state helped me form a strong friendship with a girl of my
rather small amount of friends. After we finished school at the age of
18, I was in a relationship and she almost finished therapy. She told
all our friends how she suffered from anorexia the past years and how
she almost beat it. That was when I got interested in Ana. I started
studying in a nearby town but struggled to fit in. Half a year after we
finished school, I got 19 and at New Year's I promised to loose weight. I
started at 56 Kilos, and two months later I weighted 53 kilos. A month
later it was 52. But then I moved into the town where my University was
and I had to study, so I gained 2 kilos. Summer came and I spended a lot
of time at home. Now, when the new semester started, I am at 57 kilos.
Now I hope to loose it all again. My blog should help me :) It will be
hard, since I see my boyfriend every weekend... and I love food
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